A Style Spectacle

I have been a glasses wearer since I was about 12. Originally, the glasses were for lessons at school: reading, and seeing the blackboard.

The glasses prescription is for astigmatism, which is a common problem where the cornea is shaped more like a rugby ball than a football. That means that without glasses, the world seems rather blurry. As with many things, astigmatism worsens with age.

A couple of weeks ago at my routine two yearly check-up at the opticians I discovered I needed a much stronger prescription, and to wear my glasses all the time to help prevent further strain.

I don’t mind wearing glasses: there are so many pretty styles available these days. That is in stark contrast to my very first pair, which were late 1980s NHS standard issue monstrosities!

The need to wear glasses all the time presented me with a style challenge when choosing a new pair. The glasses needed to suit me, first and foremost obviously, but also represent my style.

I like to describe my style as timeless; fashion and the latest trends are not of particular interest to me. My preferred items to wear are dresses and skirts that show off my curves. I like bright colours and patterns, but nothing too ‘showy’.

At first, I thought I wanted a half-frame pair, but having tried on literally every such pair in the shop discounted that idea (the frames were all really boring).

Pretty detailing on the arms of one of the new frames.

Pretty detailing on the arms of one of the new frames.

That said, I tried on pretty much every frame in the shop…the lovely assistant who was helping me choose was very patient! Some pairs just didn’t suit me, while others were too showy. A number of designer pairs were guilty of that, with too much bling on the arms.

I fell in love with the shape of a Nicole Farhi pair but they only came in a pale taupe, which is a colour that really doesn’t do anything for me. I was tempted by a couple of other designer pairs, and ummed and ahhed over them, but they weren’t quite right.

In the end, my favourites and the ones I chose were Boots ones. The more sensible price and an offer meant I could get two pairs, which was even better! The lenses are the same quality irrespective of the frames, so it was the perfect scenario.

The purple pair.

The purple pair.

Both pairs have a retro feel, with a nod to 1950’s Mad Men era style. The first pair is a deep purple shade, with lovely detailing on the arms. I wear a lot of purple, and even I know too much purple can be well, too much so the other pair I chose are a lovely chic tortoiseshell, in more of a cat’s eye shape.

While in the shop, I tried on the frames with hair up and hair down – they had to be right!

I’m also trying contact lenses so I’ve got another option for times when I might prefer to not wear glasses.

The glasses arrived this week and I am really pleased with them. The stronger prescription has made a massive difference: it transpires it’s not normal for things in the distance to be blurry…

Tortoiseshell pair.

Tortoiseshell pair.

Wearing glasses all the time has prompted me to update my eye make-up. To be honest I don’t like to wear a lot of make-up; while I like to look like I’ve made an effort, I don’t like to look ‘made-up’. Usually I wear a bit of powder and blush to even out my skin tone. I think my green eyes are my best facial feature, and I like to play them up a bit. Before, I wore a bit of neutral shimmery eye shadow, eye liner and mascara, but I wanted to make sure my eyes remained a feature beneath my glasses, so I’ve added a dark brown shadow along the crease of my eyelid to my repertoire.

My eye make-up armoury.

My eye make-up armoury.

My favoured make-up brand is Clinique (with a bit of Benefit); it’s best for my sensitive skin. I like:

  • Chubby stick for eyes in beige shimmer – it’s so easy to use, just sweep it over the lid like a crayon;
  • Cream shaper for eyes in black diamond. As the name suggests, it has a creamy texture, and provided you keep the pencil sharp it’s really easy to use. I like to do the classic line along my upper eyelid that gets wider towards the outer eye, and a sweep under the bottom eyelashes.
  • Benefit They’re Real! Mascara. This stuff really is fabulous. It really spruces up my eyelashes.
  • I try to stock up on Clinique when there is a bonus offer on, meaning you get lots of little goodies to try. I’d given away most of the make-up because it wasn’t being used, but I was glad I kept this colour surge eye shadow quad. I’ve been using the chocolate chip shade (bottom left) lightly blended along the eye socket with a gentle brush. It really makes my eyes ‘pop’. Now I know this looks ok on me, I’ll try the darker brown next to it.

The photo below shows the finished result. What do you think?

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Pretty Things

This week has been another challenging one. If you have read the posts I have published this week, you will get an idea of how it is has been challenging. Rather than rehash why the week has been horrible, I have chosen for this post to focus on the pretty things that have featured in my week.

Last Saturday I got a lovely surprise, with some beautiful flowers from two amazing friends. I have not yet met Vicki from Honest Mum, or Katie from Pouting in Heels, but I feel honoured to have got to know them through blogging. Vicki and Katie sent the flowers to say they were thinking of me. The flowers meant so much; I was genuinely incredibly touched. This is another example of the beauty of the blogging world: I am in touch with so many wonderful, kind people I wouldn’t have had the opportunity to have met otherwise.

The flowers are a collection of pink, red and yellow roses, and white, purple and yellow freesias. The freesias have been flowering during the course of the week, and have the most divine scent. I enjoy looking at them and taking a moment to smell them every time I pass my dining table.

The flowers on the day they arrived.

The flowers on the day they arrived.

Freesias in full bloom.

Freesias in full bloom.

I enjoy getting my nails done; having gel nails is my little treat to myself. I used to paint my nails myself, but I am pretty rubbish, usually applying the polish too thickly, getting it all over my fingers, and even when applying a quick-dry top coat doing other things too quickly and smudging it. Very frustrating. Gel nails are wonderful because they are dry immediately (that took a couple of goes to get used to!) and they don’t chip. They last about three weeks or so, as they grow out. I see a lovely lady who does gel nails from home. We always have a bit of a giggle too, which is fab.

This week I got a pretty purple with purple sparkle over, with an accent grey with silver sparkle over on both my ring fingers. I do like a bit of sparkle! The purple is a lovely bright spring shade (feeling optimistic), while the silver is sparkly like a glitter ball – they set each other off perfectly.

New nails, with my pretty fingerless gloves I wear to protect my chilly hands while typing.

New nails, with my pretty fingerless gloves I wear to protect my chilly hands while typing.

Yesterday saw a trip to the opticians for me. It was a regular two year check up. I have astigmatism, which is a fairly common problem that means the cornea is an irregular shape (curved more like a rugby ball than a football). It means that without my glasses, the world is a bit blurry and out of focus. With glasses, it is like seeing the world in super-duper HD.

The check-up revealed that I needed a much stronger prescription, because the astigmatism has worsened significantly. The issue tends to worsen as we age. The optician recommended I wear glasses all the time, to help prevent straining my eyes further. I’ve been booked in for a free contact lens trial next week, which will be interesting!

I don’t mind wearing glasses; I’ve been wearing them since I was about 12. Luckily, frames have come on in leaps and bounds since my original late ’80s standard NHS issue ones, and there are lots of pretty ones to choose from.

The sweet assistant (probably in her early 20s) who helped me choose made me laugh: I rejected a pair she suggested as ‘too ’80s’, and she said she thought retro was fashionable. “Not if you remember it the first time around”, I replied – goodness I feel old!

I spent ages choosing – if I am going to be wearing them all the time, and in public, they have to be right! So many pairs were tried on, and my final selection was tried on with hair up and hair down, to be sure they looked right. I was tempted by a couple of designer pairs, but in the end chose Boots ones. I figured the lenses are going to be the same quality, and with the designer frames you are paying lots more money for the name. It also meant I could get a second pair (there was an offer on too) so I can change my look. One pair is a deep purple, while the other is brown tortoiseshell. They are both a cat’s eye shape.

I collect them next week – let’s hope I still like them!

Fortunately, besides the increased prescription my overall eye health is fine. This was a relief because I have read of other women who had preeclampsia and HELLP syndrome as severely as me, who have been left with permanent eye problems, particularly concerning the retina.

In that context, I won’t complain about the astigmatism, particularly as it is easily remedied with glasses.

The 20 minute walk to my appointment yesterday took place amidst heavy snowfall – I couldn’t believe it when I looked out of the window. I wrapped up to brave it. The snow was blowing in my face, but it was actually quite pretty, especially as they were big flakes, swirling around.

Snow that has fallen overnight has settled, and the garden looks pretty, all sparkling white.

 

 Word of the Week – Pretty

The Reading Residence

Blur/Focus

Discs slot into place.

Click, click.

Blurry.

Click click.

Blurrier still.

It is dark in here, I feel sleepy…

Focus!

Discs removed.

New discs.

Click, click.

A bit less blurry.

Eh? No, I said A.

It’s not?

Ok, it’s not right then.

More discs.

I need to sneeze.

Better not while they are fiddling with the discs.

Ok, try again.

That’s better.

We are getting somewhere.

One eye obstructed, then the other.

More discs.

More clicks.

Ah, that’s better.

I can focus on those letters now.

A new prescription?

Hmm…new glasses!

Out to browse.

To choose a new image.

There are so many to look at.

Focus.

 

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 Linking up with Mum Turned Mom – prompt word ‘focus’

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