I am exhausted. Emotionally wrung-out.
I am exhausted because my arms are empty. I am exhausted from trying to fill the void.
I feel that I should be exhausted. I am a new mum. New mums are always exhausted, aren’t they?
Instead of feeling exhausted because of caring for and nurturing my son, watching him grow and flourish, celebrating his milestones, I am celebrating his memory and nurturing his legacy.
I am exhausted because my baby is in my heart rather than in my arms.
I am exhausted because a part of my heart is gone forever.
I am exhausted from trying to explain the unexplainable.
I am exhausted because grief is crippling, all-encompassing and exhausting.
I am exhausted by those who seek drama and gossip. Thankfully, they are few, but it is The Way of Things that they sap the most energy.
I am exhausted from trying to get myself through each day although my world has ended.
I am exhausted because I have cried so many tears. Yet I know my supply of tears has not yet been exhausted.
I am exhausted of trying to live life, life that was so cruelly denied to Hugo.
I am exhausted. But I cannot stop. It is a kind of kinetic energy, it keeps me going. I fear that if I stop, I will fall apart. I will never be put back together again.
Leigh – I am sending you much virtual love and support. I can really feel your pain and it is so brave and positive that you are sharing this – for yourself, for others and for lovely little Hugo. You’re an inspiration and show that there is such strength in being vulnerable! I don’t have kids. although I’ve recently had two miscarriages (the most recent of which was ectopic) and I know how much pain that’s caused me (and still does at times) but I cannot imagine the pain from losing your little boy the way you did. Keep doing what you’re doing – taking each day as it comes, sharing your voice and helping others. xxxx
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I’m so sorry to hear about your miscarriages Angela. Thank you so much for taking the time to read, comment and for your kind words – it means a lot xxx
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You write beautifully; your posts have me mourning for a baby I never knew existed until he was gone. I should imagine these posts will help a lot of people in a similar position to you.
I won’t offer platitudes because in my experience they are not of much use. I think of you often and read your posts even when they make me cry x
Thanks for linking up with #WeekendBlogHop
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Thank you for your kind words. I am so touched that Hugo’s story has touched you so. Thank you for your support, it really does mean a lot xxx
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Heartbreaking. Sending you loads of love, as always.
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Thank you, as always xxx
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Sending lots & lots of hugs. xxx
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Thank you for taking the time to read and comment xxx
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My heart goes out to you and your family and I am sending lots of hugs your way. They say time is a great healer and whilst you will never forget little baby Hugo, it will get easier. Thinking of you!
Laura
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Thank you xxx
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I am thinking of you and your husband as well. *hugs* #wotw
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Thank you xxx
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Just read your about page also. Your story is very powerful. I hope your campaigning has an impact. I don’t know quite how to respond yo your post other than my heart goes out to you x
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Thank you for taking the time to read and comment – and please do spread the word xxx
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There are no words. I’m so sorry. Sending hugs for the strength you need xx
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Thank you for taking the time to read and comment xxx
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Sending love and hugs!! x
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Thank you xxx
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You described so true for how I have felt. We keep life going but one important part of us has forever lost. How do we keep our lives as a whole?
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You’re right. It’s a difficult question to answer. Sending love and hugs xxx
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I cannot imagine what you’re going through. I’ve tried, as I have a close friend who lost her 2 day old baby a couple of years back, but whilst I tried to support her as best I could, I knew I could never possibly understand what she was going through. You’re building a legacy for him here, and doing a wonderful job building awareness, and I wish you some respite, at some point in the future, from your exhaustion xx
Thanks for sharing with #WotW x
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Thank you for reading my story and taking the time to comment xxx
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yes- grief is exhausting. I have a friend who asks me frequently if i’m exhausted. it’s nice to know that someone gets it.
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It is nice to know someone gets it. It’s not a pleasant place to be xxx
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I can’t imagine the pain you must feel right now. So sorry for your loss. *Hugs* xx
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Thank you xxx
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Sending you so much love. I cannot even begin to imagine the pain that you face each day, and what a mammoth task it must be to even open your eyes to a world without your precious son each day. You are building a wonderful legacy for him and I hope you know that is an amazing thing to be doing x x x x x
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Thank you so much xxx
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Wishing you strength for your unfathomable loss. My mother lost her fourth child (premature in the 70s), I think they always remain in our hearts. I hope in time the pain eases.
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I’m so sorry to hear about your mother’s loss. Thank you for commenting xxx
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Beautiful, emotional piece. I am so ver sorry for your loss and everything that you are going through. I wish I could take away your pain, I hope that blogging at least might give you some release. I find you such an inspiration and you are a very strong woman. Big hugs, thinking of you. Xx
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Thank you so much xxx
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I can’t even begin to imagine what you’re going through. You are doing an amazing job building his legacy x
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Thank you for raking the time to read and comment xxx
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Sending hugs xx #WotW
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Thank you xxx
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